Intimacy Coaching &
Tantric Massage
Tantra for Men/Lingam Owners
Tantric bodywork is a hands-on, whole-body, holistic approach to massage that supports you to slow down, attune more deeply to your body and strengthen the connection between your heart and sex centre.
Designed to take your body on a journey into deep relaxation, tantric massage reconnects you with your essence and reignites your vitality, passion and pleasure. Sessions offer a unique opportunity to treat your body as a temple and allow the mind to enter a restorative, altered sate of consciousness, leaving stress and shame behind to fully receive without any expectation to perform or give back.
In Tantra, lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis, known as the “wand of light”, and is recognised as the source of masculine power and presence. Tantric bodywork is a sacred ritual that reconnects you with your Eros (life-force energy) through whole-body honouring. Sessions allow space to unwind tension, deeply relax, let go of the mind and be held, nurtured and cared for where there is nothing for you to do or be.
The practice of tantric massage is a goalless experience guided by the intelligence of your body. This opens the potential to dive deep into the magic of the body and allow whatever needs to come into expression in each moment. All of you is welcome and celebrated. Guidance is offered to support you to cultivate deeper presence and sensitivity in your body, allowing you to feel more and attune to subtle pleasure pathways within the body. While bliss and orgasmic states can arise, the focus of the session is to open the body into a state of deep relaxation, allowing the body to unfold, express and receive what it needs in each moment.
Tantric bodywork offers an experience to receive transmissions of the sacredness of sexuality, connecting all aspects of your being, where your body can in turn transmit this during lovemaking. Sessions are tailored to your needs and your boundaries are honoured so that you’ll always feel comfortable and 100% in control.
Gift yourself an immersive, sensory rich experience that allows you to surrender into relaxed and expansive arousal while opening you to the beauty of your body, heart and truth in an effortless and enriching way.
Each session includes:
An initial consult to discuss your intentions and needs
A guided meditation and tantric breath practice
Integration and reflection at the end of the session
Do you need support with any of the following?
Premature ejaculation
Low sex drive
Performance anxiety
Fixation on quick ‘peak and deplete’ type orgasms
Body or Sexuality shame, guilt, anxiety, awkwardness or fear
Difficulty connecting intimately with self and partners
Addiction to porn and release or habitual pathways of pleasure
Feeling desensitized and only achieving orgasm through hard and fast stimulation
Arousal primarily gained externally or mentally with limited internal body and energy awareness
Sacred Spot Prostate Massage
Sacred Spot Prostate Massage is a form of tantric massage in which you receive stimulation of your prostate gland via a gloved finger using lubricant to access the prostate through the anus. Prostate touch is incorporated into a full tantric massage experience, including massage of the lingam, testicles, perineum, sacred spot and entire body, to allow you to totally relax, let go and fully surrender.
The prostate is known as the male’s emotional sex centre and is a part of the body that often holds tension and stored emotions. Gentle stimulation can offer a space to let go of the pressures and stresses of life and expectations of your masculinity in the bedroom and society more generally. It allows you to be touched at the centre of your being and dissolve into deeper states of relief, relaxation and pleasure.
The prostate is packed full of sensitive nerve endings and can produce highly stimulating pleasure that is not available through other means, such as sex or penis stimulation. A pure prostate orgasm is experienced differently to penis stimulation in that it often produces sensations that ripple through the entire body (rather than being confined to the genitals), and like the female G-spot, can lead to orgasms that are more powerful and stronger than those received through penile stimulation alone.
Many men shy away from a prostate massage due to societal stigma and misconceptions. Sacred Spot Prostate Massage (or anal play in general) does not determine your sexuality or make you homosexual. Regardless of your sexuality, every anus and prostate has millions of sensitive nerve endings and the capacity to allow you to access more of your pleasure, life force energy and true nature. In a society that is bombarded with artificial and quick release dopamine hits and external stimulation, returning home to your body and the plethora of innate, self-sourced pleasurable sensations it contains can be potent medicine for health and wellbeing.
Benefits of Prostate Massage
Some of the reported benefits of prostate massage include:
Improves erectile function by releasing chronic constriction in the pelvis, increasing blood flow into the penis, releasing seminal fluid, reducing inflammation and flushing toxins and bacteria out of your body
Regular prostate massage reduces health risks of prostatitis, prostate cancer, genital pain, and frequent night time urination
Lessens painful ejaculation caused by inflammation by eliminating toxins, stagnant energy and suppressed emotions stored in the prostate
Intensify orgasms and opens the body to self-sourced power and potential multiple orgasms
Regular prostate massage can lead to firmer erections
Integrates feminine polarity via offering you experiences of states like receptivity, surrender, feeling, connecting and being vulnerable. Receiving penetration allows greater sensitivity and awareness when you bring your powerful penetrative energy to lovers
Client Expectations
Please note:
I DO NOT work with people seeking an erotic service or personal connection with me.
I DO NOT provide stress relief/'rub n tug' services, take requests for sexual acts, role play personal fantasies, act as a surrogate partner, or fill emotional voids like companionship.
There is NO kissing, body rubs, oral or intercourse. I do not get naked. All touch is one-way from practitioner to client.
Please check in with your genuine intentions and alignment to this specific service offering before inquiring. Further information can be found on the FAQ page. I welcome inquiry calls to clarify your questions.
Pricing
Pre or Post Consult/Debrief
30mins ~ $50
For potential clients who would like to meet me or discuss their circumstances/needs in person or existing clients who need additional support integrating the session (phone and email options also available).
Tantric Massage or Coaching (non-genital)
60mins ~ $150
90mins ~ $220
Sessions tailored to your needs, for example: coaching only; exploring the power and bliss of sensual bodywork; offering a space to discern if I resonate with you for deeper explorations; to honour the boundaries of partners. These sessions do not include genital touch.
Tantric Massage or Coaching
90mins ~ $250
2hrs ~ $350
2.5hrs ~ $450
3hrs ~ $550
These sessions are designed to work with sexual energy and involve sacred lingam and optional prostate massage (prostate massage only available for 2hr+ bookings). Initial visits include a pre-massage consult (approx. 10-20mins).
"Tantra does not seek any type of experience, nor does it avoid it. Tantra is intuitive self-discovery"
Frederick Lenz
Bookings
Your journey starts here..
If you would like to book a session with me, please submit a booking request via email with preferred days/times, session type and session length.
I offer a limited number of sessions each week and accommodate weekday, evening and some weekend capacity between the hours of 11am-8pm.
If you're unsure which session is right for you, I welcome you to schedule a free discovery call and I can recommend the best path based on your intentions.
I look forward to honouring and meeting you on this inward, sensual journey.
Warmly,
Rachel
Hardcopy Intake & Waiver Form
Please complete a Word version of the intake & waiver form and either email or print a hardcopy prior to the appointment.
Please note, I will not offer a session until this form is submitted. I appreciate your understanding.
If you have privacy needs or concerns, pleasure contact me to discuss further.